Tuesday, July 9, 2019

The Truth About Truth

By Jane Oliver
     Community & Event Specialist


“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech, but with actions and truth.” 1 John 3:18

“The truth is still the truth, even if no one believes it.  A lie is still a lie, even if everyone believes it.”  There is an epidemic of Alethephobia in our culture—that is, “fear of hearing the truth.”  People often “fear the truth” because, many times, it is a blow to our ego, undermines our belief system, or it stings as a “narcissistic insult.”  Even as Christians, we shy away from certain Biblical truths that challenge us or make us uncomfortable.  The glaring problem with our alethephobia is that it keeps us walking in bondage as opposed to living in freedom.  “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples.  Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”  John 8:31-32

If someone you love were facing a life-altering decision, and asked you for guidance, would you provide them with as much solid truth as you could, or would you flatter them with lies or half-truths about their situation and impending choice to avoid hurting their feelings?  Would you help them to sort through the facts they KNOW to be true about the situation and explore the possible short and long-term consequences of their options, or would you avoid the truth to help them justify a potentially harmful choice?  Would you suggest that they pause and deeply consider their options, or would you encourage them to make a rash decision based on their immediate emotions?  Would you be considered a good friend if you did not counsel the person facing a life-altering decision with the truth?  Absolutely NOT!

If you or a loved one were advised to undergo a medical procedure of some sort--minor or major--would you ask questions of the doctor? Wouldn’t you be concerned about what the procedure entails, the possible side effects, risks, and complications, and what the expected recovery time and long-term effects will be?   I don’t care whether I am having a tooth pulled, an ingrown toenail removed, or a major “-ectomy,” I want to know every detail before I consent to the procedure, and I’m certain you do too!

 Care Net Treasure Coast and pregnancy resource centers (“PRCs”) around the country seek to be a good friend and to provide that momentary pause for women and men facing unplanned pregnancies in our communities.  We present the truth in love, without judgement, to those we serve. We provide a window to the truth inside the womb with free ultrasounds, resulting in 86% of moms choosing LIFE.  We walk alongside men and women as they grapple with one of the toughest decisions of their lives—and that of another--by arming them with the truth about  ALL of their options which ultimately empowers them.  The final life-altering decision is theirs, and we love them through it.  There is such freedom in that!  We are also there after the decision—for pregnancy support, post abortion recovery and healing, or adoption counseling, as needed.  We are pro-woman, pro-love, and pro-family.  We are non-profit, and all services provided are FREE. 


In contrast, abortion providers appeal to the world’s “alethephobia,” and are all about the profit.  In the movie, “UnPlanned,” (adapted from the book), the actress who portrays former Planned Parenthood (“PP”) Director, Abby Johnson, brings Abby’s deeply disturbing and revealing true story about PP’s agenda and practices to the public forefront.  The deception of women runs deep.  Practices like not allowing women to see their babies on an ultrasound screen, and using terms like POC (products of conception) for the fetus dehumanizes the unborn baby, and deceives women in crisis by misleading them about the truth of their choice.  Increasing abortion revenue is the primary goal.  Regarding PP, Abby Johnson says, “It represents a place women go and are left confused because they do not hear the truth about abortion and their choices.  They are in a sense abused by the medical procedures that are performed without quality medical instructions/information.  It’s a tragic place.” These practices harm women and men facing unplanned pregnancies.  Oddly enough, most abortion industry workers truly believe they are “caring” for women in crisis.  “Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  1 Corinthians 13:6

In 2017, PRCs provided almost 2 million people with free services at an estimated cost savings to the healthcare industry of at least $161 million annually (lozierinstitute.org).   Those services included pregnancy tests, options counseling, sexual risk avoidance education, parenting and prenatal education, ultrasound and medical services, community referrals, and material support.  Abortion providers are so vehemently opposed to PRCs.  Why?  Because we affect their bottom line when we empower both women and men to choose life, and to make healthy life choices by sharing the truth in love—now that’s the truth!  We would love for you to partner with us!